More than ever before, so-called empowered women are falling on their victim sword and are being offended at every single comment which can be used for political gain, particularly when it drives media attention to them.
Journalists like Jenna Price (Destroy The Joint founder) and Clementine Ford who both campaign against trolling of women are quick to pump out sensationalist pieces about how sexist and misogynistic men are and how all men are the cause of all violence against women purely by their gender. Organisations like Our Watch and White Ribbon are quick to jump on the bandwagon and spruik their wares to help perpetuate the story of a problem they are heavily funded to solve.
It is the belief of these feminist lobby groups that every action against a woman (real or perceived) is an act of violence by men. They believe this to be ‘endemic in our culture’ and engineered by a patriarchal society in which we live with inherent sexism and something they call ‘societal misogyny’. That’s really quite a big agenda to push when the vast majority men are decent and loving people.
It’s reasonable to assume that feminists who support this agenda would genuinely care about ending violence against women. However as this article shows, this is most definitely not the case for large active sects of the feminist community. While I’m sure that many women who were genuine victims of men’s violence do not wish this to be the case, there is an underpinning culture to which many are also oblivious.
Around the world today there are large groups of women working for, or supporting feminist organisations who have a kill-at-any-cost mentality. They will commit criminal acts against any person, female or male, who does not align with their political agenda or to feminist ideology. Despite many of them being staunch advocates for child protection, they indiscriminately harm by proxy the children of their victims, an issue to which they have stated a victim blaming indifference towards.
Last December columnist Kerry Sackville led the #EndViolenceAgainstWomen campaign which was intended to defend Clementine Ford who is renowned for her #KillAllMen tweets and doxxing a man to his employer who subsequently was fired. Sackville told the ABC
When you abuse one woman you abuse all of us“.
I’m not really sure how this works, but it’s safe to believe that these women want to defend Ford’s renowned right to be as offensive and repulsive to men and women she choses, but somehow she goes unchecked by her throng of faithful #EndViolenceAgainstWomen followers.
Sackville went onto say that she was tweeting out the names of every man who had abused Ford.
“We’re not slandering them, we’re not abusing them, just posting their name. [The comments are] already in public domain, it’s just taking that next step,” she said.
Sackville said the majority of trolls did not hide behind anonymity, meaning their first and last name would be shared.
This last sentence is very telling:
“They feel they can be in the public arena without any fear or consequence or retribution and I want men to know we are watching,” she said.
Leaving the well documented hypocrisy of Ford and her followers behind, but seemingly taking a leaf from her book, you will see in the following a website which will expose the identity of two online trolls known as “Annabelle Jones“ and “Wendy Stylee“. These two women and their many listed associates and allies have attempted to halt any campaigns for family law reform, shared parenting and for male victims of domestic violence over what spans an almost 10 year period. They have done so through a systematic attack of threatening, stalking, defamatory posts on targeted individuals, of which I have found myself as their central target.
They claim to be against violence against women, and they do this in the name of feminism.
Whether you agree with family law reform or services for male victims or not, if you are against violence, violence against women, cyber crimes, or any other form of abuse to every day people, then you should also be against these women’s indefensible actions. No one has the right to attack, defame, stalk, harass and make fearful other people. However when they do so for political gain, this becomes cannon fodder for a thousand big guns in political news circles.
The attached link will lead you to a website created after investigations were conducted into the online attacks against myself, my family and many of my colleagues, friends and associates. These investigations exposed a deep seeded politically based agenda to keep fathers voices out of family law reform, to give sole custody to mothers and to label all men who fight for their children as ‘abusers’ or ‘pedophiles’.
The political motives of these women is evident when you read their histories. However, “Annabelle Jones” made a particularly vicious attempt to discredit me, not on what I have to say, my politics or my beliefs, but on my brothers acquittal from a sexual abuse charge some 4 years ago. Unable to accept a court verdict and due process of the law, she has and based her allegations on small town gossip given from a former personal friend. “Annabelle” has made many false accusations about my brother including that he is a pedophile, child rapist, and has been on charges for multiple sex offences. None of these are true. However she uses these lies in attempt to gain credibility in her associated circles of mothers groups which only serves to prove to us all the plethora of lies and accusations many men face are due to the actions of bitter, vengeful and hate fuelled women.
You will see that from the investigations came the discovery that “Wendy Stylee” in particular, has many friends and close associations with the Australian Greens party. One now senior member of their staff even having assisted Wendy and her associated groups with producing fliers and propaganda.
The Greens make this statement on their policies page.
Women have the right to live free from harassment, fear, violence and abuse.
I guess they only mean some women, and certainly not the women who are the target of their associates terroristic attacks. I for one, will not vote Greens while they associate with and assist women who stalk, harass and abuse other people – male or female!
As a person of some public identity amongst the men’s and father’s rights community I do expect and indeed welcome scrutiny of my work and anything I produce. I have a tolerance level well past most people because I have an undeniable and unshakeable level of self-belief. However, what myself and my family have endured is beyond the reasonable expectations of someone even in the highest public office – although at least there, I would surely be afforded protection of the law.
No one should be targeted for their political beliefs. No one should endure targeted stalking and harassment that makes their children afraid, and no one – especially parent living alone with their children – should have to endure unidentifiable ‘visitors’ in the night. Certainly no one should have to endure all of this coming from campaigners who advocate an end to violence against all women.
Politicians who virtue-signal their support for an era that ends all violence against women but condone this behaviour are political frauds. Anti-violence organisations who condone it are frauds. Trolls who think that it’s OK to commit cyber-assaults on women to support their anti-violence position are frauds. Everyday feminists who condone or commit such attacks are frauds.
I am an advocate for shared parenting, family law reform, and for services for male victims of domestic violence. I reserve my right to work free from harassment, stalking and defamation at the hands of those seeking political or personal gain by causing harm to myself and my family.
I want to end violence against everyone.
We are all worthy of protection.
NB: I am not now nor have I ever been the author, creator, editor or host of the Domestic Violence Abuser Excusers website or domain, nor it’s associated Domestic Violence Abuser Excusers Exposed Facebook page. The personal targeted attacks on me were merely the impetus for the investigations which led to it’s creation. Please see the site disclaimer for details.
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Postscript: Wendy & Annabelle, as you read this article and the notes contained therein I wish you to know this one last thing. You have relentlessly targeted me in a manner which although at times has been soul destroying, has not yielded you one positive result. I held my daughter as she wept, feeling unsafe at being stalked by you Annabelle, especially when you sourced photos from her teenage cousins personal photos. You are both despicable human beings. I do not wish you harm, I just want you to leave me the hell alone. You are too bitter and hateful to see that ultimately we are all fighting for the same things – our children’s health and happiness.