Domestic Terrorists ~ In The Name Of Feminism

Written by Jasmin

Online bullies and trolls are now ruling the internet and the lunatics are in charge of the asylum. The term ‘Domestic Terrorist’ is one that frequently springs to mind when describing the mentality of these people. While women want to claim overwhelming victim status they are typically avoiding the reality that many people are victims of women.

Last week The Guardian posted this article  to their Facebook page about the online abuse  of women.  What followed was a true indication of the sickness which is prevailing in feminist dialogue – pure denial of their own hatred.

Unsurprisingly, the article which could have addressed the bigger picture, was about women’s experience of being bullied by men and it gave no reference to women who actually DO the bullying. Hell, it even presented Clementine Ford (the woman who spews the most online hatred at people) as the classic case of being a victim.

I commented on the article saying that I had been a victim of a sickening bout online bullying, but that my bullies were women. What came next was simply astounding, but sadly not uncommon. Two self proclaimed feminists I had never heard of started posting comments saying that I was a fraud and a liar. Heather, an online friend and fighter for truth, came to my defence and received a significant attack by these women. Here are screenshots of both posts I made. The comment in the image on the right resulted in me being banned from posting on Facebook for 3 days.

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You hear what I’m saying when I say the lunatics are running the asylum. Now, Facebook are stupid in their reporting and so called standards. I have much evidence of their standards being completely violated and them not removing posts. Both sides of this argument get a raw deal here. I’ve seen hateful stuff by women threatening to kill and I’ve seen evidence of men calling women c*nts or whores (I’ve actually never seen this in action, only in news media articles). Both of us will argue that FB don’t take appropriate action.

However, clearly there is nothing nasty or threatening in my comments. In fact anyone can see that to have had this reported is purely an act of vengeance. The feminists commenting are pretty much ‘nothing’ profiles. They are foot soldiers in the army of hatred which is aiming to silence me. So how could two little ‘nothing’ people manage to have me shut off Facebook for 3 days?

Let’s take a step back in time to the 14 October, 2015 when the Domestic Violence Abuser Excusers hate page (DVAE) kicked into action on Facebook. Now removed after lengthy police investigations and 7 months of complaints to Facebook, this page was started with the sole intention to attack and harass me with the ultimate aim of discrediting my voice in relation to men’s experiences of family violence and family law.

Their first post was about a man I don’t know who commented about his experiences in an online article. Apparently, I liked and commented as well. The second post and the vast majority of other posts were then directed at me personally. They trolled my personal photos and uploaded posts of me saying I was endorsing men to be pedophiles, telling men how to get off rape and domestic violence charges, excusing domestic violence abuse. Their sole aim was to discredit me because I had a powerful and compassionate voice for men which they did not want heard.

The DVAE page appeared just a few short weeks after I created Destroy The Narrative which is a page that reports on acts of female aggression and keeps a tally so that we can have comparative data to what Destroy The Joint were peddling. It was evident from the start that the DVAE page was being managed by a minion to Destroy the Joint in a bid to silence Destroy The Narrative and myself.

That first minion became known as ‘Annabelle Jones’ who accidentally outed herself publicly when she screenshot and reposted to her page.

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A researcher wanting to assist me get to the bottom of this page and the people behind it came forward to do the leg work of online discoveries. Through his assistance I have discovered the following.

Through information available on the public domain he has shown clear links between some feminist union ‘identities’ and the administrators of the DVAE hate page.  Some of them have been quite reckless in exposing themselves, others less obvious but with some research also not so hard to find.  Annabelle is ‘friends’ with some of these people on Facebook and while she isn’t so high up in the ranks of the feminist bullies, they are still connected to her and use her as a tool for their bigger picture.

When she outed herself she thought that she was safe from being exposed because (surprise) Annabelle Jones is not her real name. With a little researching and comparing some profiles and images it was quickly determined that ‘Annabelle’ is the same woman who was behind the failed Australian Mothers Political Party of 2010.  I’ll come back to this and more later.

The AuMPP failed two ways. 1. They only ever had 2 members 2. Their USA sisters (AMPP) with whom they were closely aligned were prosecuted and convicted of defamation against father’s rights groups. The AuMPP quickly went underground because they were also under investigation for their copycat attack on father’s rights groups here. Of course, in a game of whack-a-mole they didn’t go down for long and merely resurfaced with new online profiles.

One chief distractor of mine is known publicly as Wendy Stylee. Wendy and her ‘friends’ spends a LOT of time trying to discredit me telling people I am an “unqualified counsellor” and various other baseless statements. I use her name freely here as she has no issue in posting my name in a defamatory manner anywhere she so chooses because she does so under a fake profile.  Stylee is also known as Wendy Styles and many of her online friends refer to her as Wendy Styles, including the activist groups she is a member of such as Stop Julian Blanc and Gamergate etc and some of her political connections have named her. One even tried to come to her defence as if ‘Wendy’ is the victim in all this.  She appears here as both Styles and Stylee with the same profile, however we know that Wendy is not her real name. Screen Shot 2016-04-26 at 7.43.53 pm

When Wendy found out we were doing investigations she seems to have disappeared. This coincided with the arrival of Alison Lim who posted on DVAE that she had been “watching” me for some time.  Here on the right you see she came up as a “people you may know” which is Facebook’s way of letting me know that she has been searching for me.

However, it’s important to remember that she is really just one activist the army of trolls. Because of ‘Annabelle’s’ fall from feminist grace in 2010, Wendy is a little higher up the list.  However since Wendy was one of the only contributors (under various profiles) to the DVAE hate page, it’s safe to assume they are very close associates.

The feminist hierarchy looks a little like this. There are some cross overs, for instance some activists have been seen with direct political associates. I guess that’s not surprising but a crazy thing for anyone with political aspirations to be associating with.


Political Power

Feminist Unionists – Destroy The Joint & Feminist Media

Feminist Activists – Front line soldiers and detractors sent to discredit myself and others

Feminist Minions – Keyboard warriors sent to terrorise and disrupt any pro male voice. 

Most of the regular commenters we see day in and day out in social media are the bottom rung of this hierarchy. They are bored individuals who garnish great personal satisfaction out of being terrorists online and baiting people and then claiming victim status. They make cries like..

This is what it’s like to be a woman on the internet

Behind the scenes they have formed large groups who when they receive an alert mass report a single post of anyone who those higher up the food chain are trying to silence.

The second line of the hierarchy are the ones who are pulling the strings of the minions, organising groups, rallies and online meetings. They have groups of friends both real time and online who organise the troops and keep the agenda alive. They are actively involved in university student groups and faculty, single parent action groups, intersectional feminist groups, union groups, family law groups and of course, domestic violence groups.

DVAE hate

The third line are perhaps the most sickening. The feminist media and DTJ unionists who tow the ‘all men are evil bastards’ line consistent with their illogical belief of societal misogyny. They knowingly perpetuate myths of domestic violence figures so that all their minions believe them. They work hand in hand with Our Watch (headed by former Senator Natasha Stott Despoja) and White Ribbon who help disseminate the hysteria to the masses.

At the very peak of this is the blind stupidity of the politicians both. For something that is said to be so patriarchal in structure, someone should surely have the balls to stand up to these women who make a living out of hating on men and those of us who support them.

Of course, there is always dissent in the ranks when the structure is being questioned. Here we see Wendy and her tribe wanting to share information about the proposed family law reform with her friend at Destroy The Joint, but apparently even her former friend who heads DTJ was tired of her.

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According to the researcher’s efforts in 2008 there was an attack on the Family Law Web Guide and Shared Parenting Council where some of these women associated with the family court took umbrage with men’s groups for daring to have a voice.  They made 117 defamatory posts in 2008, 133 posts in 2009 before they got busted and had to go underground in 2010.  This was, in part, the handy work of ‘Annabelle Jones’. Through this link the researcher determined Annabelle’s real identity, the story of her failed marriage and her trip to America to speak at the AMPP conference, and other details.

During their reign of terror and defamation they exposed personal details about anyone who was in any way associated with a father’s group or assisting men.  They showed just what these women’s activists groups are designed to do – spew hate and vitriol, irrespective of truth and all in the name of equality feminism.

A relatively small group of women at the activist level, they made sure that mother’s rights were the only thing considered in family court and this makes for a timely reminder of exactly what kind of mother’s these women most likely are.

Remember, they pass their lies to their minions below them to help perpetuate the myths and they pass them upwards to their comrades and captains including feminist media to make the myths become ‘fact’. Because if it’s in the media, it must be true……

This was really the beginning of the catastrophe of lies and false allegations that are now clogging up family courts in Australia and disadvantaging tens of thousands of children in the process.

I often wonder if one day there will ever be civil discourse on the matter of shared parenting and what is best for children. It’s all I ever wanted from the start – to see more children able to flexibly go between the homes of their parents and maintain a loving relationship with both sides of the family. But I continue to see the good work of many groups attempting to have a voice, only to be shouted down by the radical feminist mouthpieces associated with ‘Wendy’ and ‘Annabelle’.

I have never excused domestic violence nor dismissed the prevalence of it. Quite the opposite. However doxxers like ‘Wendy’ and ‘Annabelle’ and their cohorts are frightened that I will expose the truth.

The truth that domestic violence is not gendered, but generational. The truth that there are 10’s of thousands of Australian men and children who are victims of family violence at the hands of women. The truth that the VAW campaign is purely a $21billion agenda to keep women in jobs. The truth that women routinely make false allegations in family court. The truth that women can be violent and abusive too. And now, the truth about them.

Someone like myself who has a rational voice is apparently a major threat. I have a large following and my articles can be read by 4000-5000 people in a few days. This is naturally concerning to them.

While all the little minions and those named here will start crying foul of ‘how dare you say these things about these poor women’ –  I say bullshit.  These trolls are not operating under their real names and they aim to take advantage of those of us who are honest and open and doing the right thing. They have stalked, harassed and defamed myself and many others.

The abuse and extreme level of stress I have felt at the hands of these women has at times been unbearable and because of this I have not always acted the way I would generally be. I have hated these women for what they have done to me and to my family. They have stalked my children, my former husband, the kids schools and every local business in town all to intimidate me. I have lived in fear of being physically attacked. I have worried about mine and my children’s safety.

All this has happened in the name of feminism.  (And they wonder why women don’t want to be feminists.)

But I will remain stronger than their terrorism of my life. I will not fall into their victimhood trap and I will fight them every step of the way.

It’s all very well to say “You’re doing something right” but in that we forget the bigger picture of the insidious nature of what they are doing this for; and just how many families their agenda has ruined – including those of you reading this who are in family court now.

*All information provided here is available on the public domain…..and so much more.

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About the author


Jasmin is a specialist men’s coach who supports men in all aspects of relationships, but specifically those who are going through high conflict separation and divorce. She is also a dedicate advocate for services for men and their children who have been victims of domestic violence and abuse.

Jasmin helps men who are struggling and feeling lost and alone, to move to a place of acceptance and confidence so they can move ahead and live a life consistent with their values and beliefs. She believes strongly in the power of overcoming past hurts through empathy and compassion.

She is a mother of two, author, presenter and coach. She lives in the idyllic coastal town of Merimbula, NSW, Australia.

*All written material on Relating To Men is subject to copyright to the author.

  • Paul

    Wow. Is there any of this you can take to the police? If so do so.

    • Bryan Scandrett

      Years ago mate, they’re run by feminists.

      • Junky

        trained by feminists these days.

  • Tonup

    I have long suspected that the anti-male rhetoric (disguised as “Feminism”) was much more deliberately organised than at first it may appear. I am an egalitarian first and foremost and just couldn’t understand why pretty much every pro “feminist” statement I read (for example – Every university campus in he world is populated by rapists! ) had absolutely no genuine peer reviewed empirical data attached and I figured out that the only thing to compare this to is how Urban Myths are perpetuated, but I have seen the kind of posts that you refer to in your article and although I would like to stand up and call these people out I fear I don’t have the vocabulary to do it effectively. Even if I did I am sure I would be labelled yet another Misogynist tool of the patriarchy. So thank you for an enlightening read and long may you continue to expose these vile and vitriolic hypocrites for what they are.

  • Darlene Monsour

    FYI to any and all whom participate in online Bullying/Harassment this carries a hefty Felony Crime….The best part is that since this is done electronically/on the Internet this also carries a click stream which never goes away.. This is a Federal Crime yet also a Global Crime due to the FCC Laws..

  • LeftRightOut67

    Thank you Jasmin for all that you’ve done for men & boys. I hope you stay on doing this because it’s imperative that it’s done. And you do it very well. But I would understand if it is too much for you.
    Stay strong.

    • They won’t silence or stop me. I’m all good 😉

  • Tim Patten

    I completely agree. I have noticed the internet warriors attack others as a group. Today, our side has keyboard rebels also. Let the war begin.

  • Chris

    With an active hashtag called #killallmen, with tv shows where people laugh when women slap men, to say nothing of the usual negative portrayal, we are asked to believe MSM when they say woman are being harassed online. The balance is skewed off scale to begin with.

  • Julian Tomlinson

    Good on you, Jasmin. Victimhood is now a multi-billion dollar industry funded by ill-informed governments desperate to be seen to be sticking up for the downtrodden – even though the downtrodden aren’t really that badly treated at all.
    Anyone who threatens this cosy arrangement is attacked mercilessly, held up to ridicule and silenced. What really worries me is the calls to strengthen laws that restrict freedom of speech.
    Have no doubt that your detractors will be lobbying politicians furiously behind the scenes to enact laws that prevent views like yours being aired. This is something everyone must be on the lookout for.

  • RevSpinnaker

    Knock ’em dead Jasmin. You’re on the right track. Watch feminists bristle when the subject of child abuse is brought up. They have done everything possible to associate the term “abuse” with sexual abuse. They simply do not acknowledge maternal child abuse exists. Female abusers of children are literally not mentioned in American public service announcements for domestic violence.

  • Igor Rogov

    What we see is an orchestrated and sustained political campaign designed to transfer money and privileged workplaces to the women, not by producing extra resources and creating new jobs, but by robbing male population of them.
    All this utterly unfair and essentially evil politicking is done on a background of manufactured public consent.
    This public consent is manufactured by the media, artificially saturated with pro-feminist messages and artificially depraved of anti-feminist and/or pro-male rights messages.

    It requires a certain political will to return back to the sanity. And currently I don’t see one, because there is no intensive amongst politicians to stand for working man of this country. It should change and will change. The later it happens, the worse the political catastrophe we’ll see.

  • gwallan

    “At the very peak of this is the blind stupidity of the politicians”

    Some ancient history…

    The Australian Bureau of Statistics prepared and published the first Personal Safety Survey in 1994. What most folk won’t know is that the report was subject to a great deal of political interference from MPs within the Hawke/Keating government. The ABS had originally intended to survey both men and women regarding experiences of violence or abuse. They were forced to remove males from the subject group and to also remove any questions which might identify the sex of a perpetrator. In other words the government was looking to create “proof” that the only victims were women and the only perpetrators men. The published study would also have counted violence towards women by other women as having been perpetrated by men.

    To this day I believe that government’s intent was to create a stream of funding for feminist groups. This, however, could easily have been demonstrated to be in breach of prevailing equality laws so they needed to create an evidentiary basis to justify it. The means chosen was a deliberate and successful effort to render both male victims AND female perpetrators as invisible as possible. Not much later the Australia Says No to Violence Against Women campaigns began.

    I was aware of these events at the time and learned more subsequently. I was then working in a statistics role in another government department(education) but was physically situated about thirty metres from the ABS people affected. I later worked for a CEO who had, along with several others, resigned from a senior role at the ABS because of that interference and, as he put it to me, “the discrimination it represented”. I was actually quite a radical feminist until the mid nineties. These events, along with drastic changes which were predictably deleterious to boys in education, were the seeds that led to my shedding that feminism for good.

  • disqus_ArQv6e31it

    Thank you so much Jasmin for getting the truth about feminism out in the open. Feminism is an ideology based on hatred of men and little else. A tiny sample of what I mean.

    The proportion of men must be reduced to and maintained at approximately 10% of the human race. Sally Miller Gearhart, in The Future – If There Is One – Is Female

    If life is to survive on this planet, there must be a decontamination of the
    Earth. I think this will be accompanied by an evolutionary process that will
    result in a drastic reduction of the population of males. Mary Daly

    I Don’t Like White Men, I Want Them to Be a Lost Species. Yasmin

    I would actually put them all in some kind of camp where they can all drive around in quad bikes, or bicycles, or white vans. I would give them a choice of vehicles to
    drive around with, give them no porn, they wouldn’t be able to fight – we would have wardens, of course! Women who want to see their sons or male loved ones would be able to go and visit, or take them out like a library book, and then bring them back. Julie Bindel is a misandrist feminist who is a regular columnist for the Guardian newspaper

    “We are, as a sex, infinitely superior to men” Elizabeth Cady Stanton

    I feel that ‘man-hating’ is an honorable and viable political act, that the
    oppressed have a right to class-hatred against the class that is oppressing
    them. Robin Morgan, Ms. Magazine Editor

    I want to see a man beaten to a bloody pulp with a high-heel shoved in his mouth,
    like an apple in the mouth of a pig. Andrea Dworkin

    Zerina Maxwell “Ultimately, the costs of wrongly disbelieving a survivor far outweigh
    the costs of calling someone a rapist.” Maxwell said that false accusations
    “can be undone by an investigation that clears the accused, especially if
    it is done quickly.”

    “Every woman’s son is her potential betrayer and also the inevitable rapist or
    exploiter of another woman.” Andrea Dworkin

    “I don’t have time for men’s wow-betide-me felling” Clementine Ford, Renowned Feminist

    “To call a man an animal is to flatter him; he’s a machine, a walking
    dildo” Valerie Solanas

    January Jones, “Women are superior to men. Men are there to serve women.”

    “Not all men are petulant, whiny babies but a f**kload of them do a good job of
    acting like it.” – Clementine Ford.

    “Well, we’d just kill them.” – Ford imagines the outcome for non-compliant men on her fantasy feminist island.

    The more famous and powerful I get the more power I have to hurt men. Sharon Stone

    Every man is a potential rapist” Nandita Das, Actress

    Comment from Hailey Martin on her facebook page, “We need to empower more
    females in this world and by breastfeeding they were giving them a good start
    in life which they deserve over a baby boy. No baby boy will ever be fed from
    my breasts if I an unfortunate enough to have a son”

    “I love the power women have. I think women rule the world because they rule men. Manipulating men – that’s our job. That’s what we’re on the planet for.” Isla

    What terrorist group does this remind you of?
    “if you are not a feminist, you do not deserve to live.” “Feminism is
    nonnegotiable” Actress and leading feminist activist Margaret Cho Quote
    for #Womensrights

  • bloke

    I just wanted to add my support to what you’re doing for men and boys. Thanks for your courage in dealing with this malevolent feminist tyranny. Merimbula is beautiful,hope you get some peace there.

  • bloke

    You show a lot of courage dealing with these marxist feminist tyrants. Keep it up! We appreciate you.

  • Francine Georgio

    Hi Jasmine, out of curiosity, what formal qualifications do you have for coaching men?

  • Francine Georgio

    Hi Jasmin, you didn’t answer my question – I was curious about your qualifications for coaching men. I am interested in doing this work myself and I have a few post grad quals in the area of psychology and social work, so just wondering…